A Mother’s Courage: The Heartfelt Letter to the Doctor Who Advised Termination!

When Courtney Baker became pregnant with her third child, she anticipated a healthy delivery. However, a routine checkup brought unexpected news: her baby had been diagnosed with Down syndrome. The doctor suggested an abortion, claiming that raising a child with the condition would lead to a diminished quality of life for the family. Despite the recommendation, Baker stood firm in her decision to carry her baby to term, confident in her love and commitment.
Today, Baker is a proud mother of three and a passionate advocate for people with Down syndrome. She shares the joys of raising her daughter, Emersyn, affectionately known as Emmy, on social media, highlighting how full, happy, and loving life can be for children with the condition. Baker has also spoken out against countries like Iceland and Denmark, criticizing their policies aimed at eradicating Down syndrome through abortion, calling such actions “nothing to be proud of.”
As part of her advocacy, Baker wrote a heartfelt letter to the prenatal specialist who had suggested abortion, posting it on her Facebook page. In the letter, she expressed her sadness at his lack of compassion and support during a deeply vulnerable time. She contrasted his approach with that of a friend’s doctor, who upon seeing her child’s diagnosis, simply said, “He’s perfect.”
Baker explained that while the doctor’s words left her feeling sad and isolated, she did not harbor anger toward him. Instead, she expressed sorrow for the doctor, who she believes had lost the “perpetual awe” of witnessing new life. She also shared her heartbreak for the other mothers who might have faced the same discouraging and outdated advice from him.
Ultimately, Baker’s message is clear: she wishes doctors would tell mothers the truth—that their child with Down syndrome is “absolutely perfect.” Her daughter, Emersyn, has brought immense joy and love to her family, serving as a living testament that children with Down syndrome are not only worthy of life but capable of inspiring those around them.